Now I have the last “X” between DO and FEEL to make an
estimate of how I think - feel - believe - experience that DO and
FEEL balance out , on average over a couple of years.
I like doing stuff and I have some trouble with direct experience
of emotions so the placement of the “X” favors the “DO” end of
the line, just like I do THINK - FEEL placement.
With this third issue to soften the competition I now have a new
picture that is not about competition, but is about how :
I relate to 3 things, without having to give up any one of them
I can share with another with my new found options
I can share in a relationship with new comfort
Emotional security, and comfort are foundations for change.
These provide enormous security for me in being able to explore,
question, challenge, and test, to enjoy my change and growth
with a lot of emotional comfort and freedom.
And without the emotionally forced choice of only 2 options |
