Now I draw the last leg of the triangle.
With this third issued to soften my forced choice I now have a
new picture
that is not about forced choice, but is now about 3 new sets of options that
give me an opportunity to :
RELATE TO 3 SETS OF CHOICES
RELATE TO 3 SETS OF OPTIONS
That affect each other (me) in new and different ways
(homework about behavior now becomes the issue for making small
changes without major emotional threat -- small starts are good -- too much
means people quit and lose even small gains)
This eliminates the arbitrary and forced choice for only 2 options. Forced
Choice usually offers a “winning” and “Losing” choice. Winning and Losing
is a power competition with no winners. Now I can THINK - FEEL - DO and
look at how 3 choices relate to me.
So I place and “X” where I find this balance point between how
much my
DOING does run my life and how much my FEELING does run my life. Now I
am adding, not subtracting, to my comfort. |
