THE QUINBY ATTITUDE TRIANGLE
LOVE - WORK - PLAY - 3 areas in life that INVITE MASTERY

The practice of MASTERY and BALANCE in these 3 life areas help to ensure HAPPY, PRODUCTIVE, FUNCTIONAL, LIVING.

PLAY - To occupy oneself in amusement, sport, to act in jest, to behave or converse in a sportive or playful way, to pretend to be, mimic the activities: played the cowboy; played the star.

People need to PLAY in practicing different feelings, roles, ego-states, thoughts, what-ifs. Life is not grim - if you learn to play with new ideas, thoughts and feelings, then you can “try-them-on-for-size” before you “buy” them. Children do this all the time to “try-on-life” and pick what works for them.

PLAY creates new relationship to ideas, feelings, people, activities. PLAY at WORK often makes the work more efficient and the day go pleasantly. PLAYFULNESS at LOVE stops the dull, repetitive routines that take the luster and vitality out of loving. A sense of PLAY in life adds comfort, creativity, and joy.
Laughter, Lightness, and Giggling are good too.


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