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1. Whichever role in the Drama Triangle that you do NOT know
how to do -- on purpose as a procedure -- is the one that you will
get blackmailed and threatened with the most. The other person’s
switch between P-R-V is often frightening and confusing for you --
because you don’t like experiencing that in yourself--and that is
how others use their POWER on you.
2. Two people can NOT say in the same Drama Role for very
long. People unconsciously change Roles in the Drama Triangle
to maintain their illusion of power. If you change Drama Roles on
purpose - as a procedure - you can control yourself and minimize
the damage to both of you when they get stuck in their Drama
and manipulation to maintain power.
3. People have a favorite scripted Role and a favorite scripted
switch to another Role. These are learned and fine-tuned in
childhood and as grown-ups. If you know them, you can avoid
that Dramatic Switch which generates the unpleasant payoff that
follows.
MASTER PRV BY PRACTICING AS A
PROCEDURAL SKILL |
