NO LIMITS
Without limits and boundaries, people do not know when
to start or stop, when they are done, when they have gone far enough, or
when enough has been said or done. They run on emotional cues, and
feelings and thoughts of entitlement.
Without limits people get involved in endless emotional
competition for who is OK and who is NOT OK. The Drama Triangle struggle
for Okness generates power plays of naming, blaming, and shaming, and
emotional competition with no clear functional outcome -- for now or in
the future !
The bad feelings that follow will be obvious or subtle
and often felt much later than the Drama that generates them. The Drama
is regenerated and repeated. Nobody knows who started it, why it
started, when it started , when it will end, how it will end, and it
does not do problem-solving generation.
1. No lines past which to stop
(no time to take a break)
2. No confines or restrictions
(no rules or procedures)
3. No restraint within a boundary
(how long to talk)
4. No specification
(too few words to set
limits)
NO
LIMITS - to breach the rules of Civility, Politeness, Dignity
