A
SENSE OF ENTITLEMENT --
( DUE ME - DO ME ) |
- "you owe me"
- "I deserve . . . (you do not)
- "I should have . . . (you should not have)
- "I do not have to do . . . (you do)
- "I should not have to . . .
- "I am above doing that"
- "I am entitled to . . . "
x |
X
PROCESS - INVISIBLE - inside our head, heart, gut
CONTENT - VISIBLE - seen/heard in
our behavior |
X
If you cannot determine whether other people have a
clear sense
of entitlement about some issue, then look at their
behavior
-- over time -- to observe their habitual use of the
OK CORRAL
positions, where they are in the DRAMA TRIANGLE, and
what
EGO-STATES: that they use, -- over time --. |
Habitual use will establish a pattern. When you know
patterns and have studied more TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS
THEORY, you can get into trouble ---or--- stay out of
trouble with equal skill.
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AN
INTERESTING AND VALUABLE SKILL ALL BY ITSELF ! |