TRANSACTIONS - COMPLIMENTARY (PARALLEL)

When any ego-state talks to another and the target ego-state DOES respond, the transaction is COMPLIMENTARY and the ego-states remain engaged in further transactions.

It does not matter whether the stimulus and response are functional or dysfunctional. The process of a complimentary transaction determines the continuity of transactions.

These include:
P-P    A-A   C-C   P-A   P-C   A-C

Parents nagging children - Parents nurturing children

Adult giving interesting data - Adult giving dull and dry data

Child whining and sniveling - Child curious & fun cooperation

Parent fighting with another Parent about “proper” values

Parent discussing with another Parent about “proper” values


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