| A
SENSE OF ENTITLEMENT -- (
DUE
ME - DO ME ) |
|
"you owe me"
"I deserve . . . (you do not)
"I should have . . . (you should not have)
"I do not have to do . . . (you do)
"I should not have to . . .
"I am above doing that"
"I am entitled to . . . "x |
|
PROCESS - INVISIBLE:
inside our head, heart, gut
CONTENT - VISIBLE :
seen/heard in our
behavior
|
If you cannot
determine whether other people have a clear sense of entitlement
about some issue, then look at their behavior
-- over time -- to observe their habitual use of the OK CORRAL
positions, where they are in the DRAMA TRIANGLE, and what
EGO-STATES: that they use
-- over time --. |
Habitual
use will establish a pattern. When you know patterns and have
studied more TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS THEORY, you can get into
trouble ---or--- stay out of trouble with equal skill.
AN
INTERESTING AND VALUABLE SKILL ALL BY ITSELF ! |
