FROM THE PSYCHOLOGICALLY AND
FUNCTIONAL POWER POSITION OF
I AM OK - YOU ARE OK
-- WITH LIMITS
People who Persevere
hang-in-there with their agenda of their
estimates of what other
people need. That estimate is not
arrogant, but based upon some
considered thought. It is offered
over again from time to time
with a clear plan to raise the issue.
They will take “No”
for an answer and they do not push the issue
distraction or harassment.
The LIMIT here is having a plan - over time - to take care about
somebody’s interest. They may be in denial, they may not be
ready now, but there is a need to raise the issue from time to
time, as a caring and loving interest in a other person.