"you owe me"
"I deserve . . . (you do not)
"I should have . . . (you should not have)
"I do not have to do . . . (you do)
"I should not have to . . .
"I am above doing that"
"I am entitled to . . . "x
PROCESS - INVISIBLE - inside our head, heart, gut
CONTENT - VISIBLE - seen/heard in our
If you cannot determine whether other people have a clear
of entitlement about some issue, then look at their
-- over time -- to observe their habitual use of the OK
positions, where they are in the DRAMA TRIANGLE, and what
EGO-STATES: that they use, -- over time --.
Habitual use will establish a pattern. When you know patterns
and have studied more TRANSACTIONAL ANALYSIS THEORY, you can get
into trouble ---or--- stay out of trouble with equal skill.
INTERESTING AND VALUABLE SKILL ALL BY ITSELF !